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内容简介
这部电影一开始的名字，叫《中国家庭》
虽然是泰国故事，但一家人是潮汕移民，电影中有大量的潮汕文化和潮汕方言。
美术镜头，和日本导演是枝裕和如出一脉，
叙事风格，又很像马来西亚近些年的那些家庭故事片。
可以说，是东亚电影集大成者。
既然充满了东亚文化和中国文化，自然离不开“重男轻女”这个命题。
外婆本身是重男轻女的受害者，最后的结局对遗产的分配（
其实就是那套房子），也没有分给女儿。
这不免引起一些观众嘀咕，说外婆同样重男轻女。
我觉得没有。或者说很轻微。
外婆对子女的爱，分不出孰轻孰重，分不出第一第二，这是电影最催泪的点之一。
首先，她肯定不是传统的重男轻女。她只是没有特别偏爱女儿罢了。
要说她有偏爱，那就是在金钱上，偏爱了小儿子，也就是小舅。
但也不是出于重男轻女，而是因为小舅不成器，没办法独立生活，恨铁不成钢。
电影也让外孙骂了小舅两次，第二次时说，外婆没了，以后没人帮你了。
这也是把细节都摊开来，让观众自己品味。
家庭情感和金钱纠纷本就是糊涂账，你可以说外婆在物质上偏心小舅了，但不能说她重男轻女。
因为大舅，她是一分钱都没给。
其实，对大舅，她为了祈福，几十年没吃牛肉。
对女儿，她又是帮忙带外孙，又是存了一辈子钱，
听说女儿连轴转，她直接说自己不化疗让女儿睡觉，还独自偷偷的哭——
很多人想必都不记得这个细节了吧。
怎么不爱女儿呢？
对小舅，这烂泥扶不上墙，她操心对方活不下去，给的钱最多。
但外婆的爱，不仅仅在物质上。
小舅拿到钱，还不是眼馋石榴？
石榴，谁能说不是爱呢?
可以说，无论是精神上，还是物质上，她把能给的，全给了三个子女，手心手背都是肉。
但是，她自己，又得到了什么呢？又有谁爱她？
如果不是外孙机缘巧合的给她送终，在最后一年带给她些许幸福，
恐怕，三子女都没有感谢过自己的母亲吧。
很多人都忘了，爱是相互的。
所以，且别说外婆和传统极端的重男轻女无关，哪怕有，也只是轻微的，可以理解的，是比上一代要进步巨大的。
电影要说有谁是恶人，那只有外婆的哥哥。
优秀的电影，不是见人说人话见鬼说鬼话。
而是把道德困境诚实的刻画出来，让观众自己品味。
儿子继承遗产，女儿继承癌症
付出总比得到安心
类似的金句很多，毫不避讳
能品出多少，全看个人水平，就像一面镜子，看见什么，其实都是自己的投射。
只说如果看完这部电影，没有感受到爱的细节，
只单方面想着金钱上的不公，那也实在是有些局限了。
